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Adult Dating: Is There More To Adult Dating Sites Than Just Sex?

The idea behind niche dating sites is that you join them on the assumption you will meet lots of people with a similar interest: and in the case of adult dating sites, this is sex! But is there more to an adult dating site than just sex?

There are many adult dating sites out there, most of which have a reputation for being full of married players, kinky swingers, and generally dodgy people not looking for anything more romantic than a game of “doctors and nurses”. As such, it is fair to say that if you join an adult dating site, you need to be pretty open-minded and not the kind of person who finds rude pictures and sex chat offensive. It also helps if you are female as the majority of the people on there tend to be men.

Is everyone on an adult dating site looking for no-strings fun?

Not everyone is only after sex. You just need to be a little more discerning as you browse through profiles. There will be lots of people who state they are looking for more than just a threesome with you and their wife; whether or not you choose to believe them is entirely up to you!

If you want more than just a torrid romp, be up front about it in your profile and state clearly that you are ultimately looking for a long-term relationship. Unless you are honest about your intentions, you will soon be sifting through an interesting selection of swingers’ party invitations and X-rated emails. On the other hand, if all you want is the chance to road test the suspension in your sporty new hatchback, be honest about that, too.

Will anybody contact me if I mention the “R” word?

The “less is more” approach is actually very effective on a site where 99% of members put their cards on the table from the word go. Just don’t contradict your words by posting a series of very intimate pictures!

Lots of people post rude pictures on adult dating sites, but if you choose to do that, don’t be surprised if nobody takes you very seriously when you say you want more than sex. Instead, try posting a “tasteful” picture. It does not necessarily need to be suitable for your granny’s photo album, but at least make sure it is “artistic” as opposed to “full frontal”. And for goodness sake, make sure your face is not visible! For all you know, your boss is also a member of the site…

I have loads of messages in my inbox!

It might feel like Christmas has come early, but you need to be a little discriminating at this point. Discard the messages that are nothing but a stream of filth. Also, discard the contacts that attach a rude picture without taking the trouble to add a message. If you want more than sex, try talking to the contacts who actually seem interested in you, not your vital statistics. Engage them in chat and see where it takes you.

Adult Dating sites are no different to any other dating site – the chemistry is not always there when you meet up, but if it is – well at least you know you have one thing in common right from the start!

And if it all goes well, you can always edit that part when friends ask: “how did you two meet?”

Rachelle Le-Monnier is an expert on the dating scene. For many years she has selflessly gone on hundreds of dates: some good, some bad… and some so terrible she needed therapy to recover from the trauma.

Why Sex Toys Are Good For the Relationship

There are many misconceptions about the use of adult toys in relationships. Some people feel they cannot compete with something that does not get tired, or sore. Those people feel that a toy is going to be their replacement and that they will not be as desirable to their partner.

The truth is the best intimacy comes between two people that care for each other. Their truly is nothing that can replace the physical, emotional, and spiritual connections made during intimacy. As much fun as the jackrabbit 3000 is with its 42 functions and 10-hour battery, it still will not talk to you, it cannot read your body language, and you can forget about the pillow talk and cuddling when you are done.

The reason toys are beneficial is they promote communication between the couple. They also provide a sense of adventure, and the thrill of trying something new and unfamiliar in the bedroom. When used properly, toys can promote the growth and understanding of each others intimate needs.

With a vast selection of toys, there is something out there for you and your partner to try. From mild to wild, you can find something that will help take your relationship to a new and fun level. You have many options when looking for toys. There is no need to visit, “that” store off the highway exit. You can shop discreetly online, or you can host a party with your friends and get a chance to see, feel, touch, and taste the different toys, creams, edibles, and more in the comfort of your own home. You might even make some extra money at your party to pay bills or get a free toy of your own.

So before you dismiss the use of toys, know that they are not meant to replace anything, they are only meant to enhance you and your partner’s intimacy and adventure in the bedroom.

How To Find The Best Online Dating Site For You

To find the best online dating service for you, you should first identify what you want to get out of online dating. There are online dating websites out there to fit almost any goal you might have, whether it is a friendly date, a purely physical relationship, a long-term partnership, or marriage.

Typically, the more you want to get to know your potential date, the more detailed an online dating service you will want. For example, if you are looking for a soul mate who has a bunch of things in common with you, you’ll probably be happiest if you gravitate towards online dating services that require personality profiles and detailed answers to an array of questions. Of course, this is not always the case. Sometimes people are searching for that ultra-compatible partner, but they are only interested in breaking the ice online and then handling everything else face to face. Those people should look for online dating services with lots of people and little information to fill out. Then they can quickly get on their way to finding a date. The same goes for people who aren’t interested in anything serious.

Another factor to consider in your online dating search is the number of members. This is especially important if you don’t live in a large location or a place that is a short trip to one. After all, it would be a shame to sign up and pay for an online dating service only to find out that there are not any other members living anywhere near you. You can help avoid this scenario by sticking to the online dating websites with the most members. Many of the larger online matchmakers will boast about their membership numbers on their websites. If you don’t see the information there, then check out what some reviewers have had to say about a particular place’s number of potential matches.

Also, the price of an online dating website matters to a lot of people. Shop around and read some online dating service reviews to find the place that will have the best combination of the features you want and the price you want to pay. You can expect the online dating services with the advanced searching capabilities and in-depth questionnaires to be more expensive than the places that quickly have your profile up and running after just a few minutes.

Last, make sure you do a little background check on whatever online dating service you are thinking about joining. Shady little fly-by-night operations crop up easier than ever thanks to the internet, so make sure you find out there is some substance behind any website you are interested in. Find out what some other users have to say about the place, and see how effective they have been in meeting the expectations of other users who share the same goal as you.

Above all, stay realistic and stay safe. Don’t give out sensitive personal information that can help someone to take advantage of you. Also, remember that not everyone tells the truth on the internet. But don’t let those necessary precautions deter you. In spite of online dating’s potential pitfalls, more and more people are successfully finding partners online all the time.